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 Vincent, a man who got married in skirt.
- Jupe-Skirt : I let Vincent tell us about his wearing of a skirt and his wedding. Here is his text :
Last august 17th, I got married. A wonderful, full of emotion, magical day…but, isn’t it the same for all those who say yes to each other ? Isn’t the wedding day systematically a day of intensive joy ? Perhaps this is just not to put our feet in the footsteps of others, that we wanted our wedding being a special day, a moment that every single detail has been internalized, thought, felt, before being expressed our way. So we have, for example, decided to say "yes" in the greatest secrecy. Nobody around us knew. In this way, we could savour the moment without any constraint or obligation. The secret is a comfortable setting for those who love each others…
But this need for originality has also pushed us to ask ourselves about every little detail. We have therefore held no exception to the rule. While my fiancée had chosen a beautiful dress imported from Asia, I decided to get married in a skirt. This is a long skirt in natural linen. A classic and elegant fit coming from the trademark AndersLandinger. The hardest part was to find the rest of the suit because there is no real code, no real landmarks in this area. I looked for examples on the internet but in vain. So I had to invent held around the full skirt. Finally, I found a shirt and a jacket (which I had to retail) relative to conventional settle with the fantasy of wearing a skirt. I also had the chance to fall on a very good shoes store where I could find originals ones and in perfect harmony with the rest. Finally, a good half-day will be enough to compose the whole.
What I liked during my research, is the host of different vendors that I dealt. Each time they have discovered my desire to get married in a skirt, they were wildly enthusiastic about the "it's great! "" You're right, "... One of them even asked me the name of the site where I found the skirt to order one for her husband. My experience as a man in a skirt taught me that very often, women love the idea that a man dressed in an original way. While men are still trapped in the walls of immense and complex reflexes in backward way of thinking, let women express their feelings freely and when they like something, they completely forget the customs and codes established. Of course, more and more men do the same ... but the road is still long.
My skirt marriage was not my first skirt. I had already been a few months. This is a black skirt ... very timidly Gothic. Not that I'm gothic but simply because for the moment, we find little skirt out of this movement aesthetics and worked very carefully. There are few shops that offer original outfits for men and must therefore fall back on marginal movements.
I am fortunate to have a great companion. When I told him I wanted to try the experiment of the skirt, she has immediately supported with an exciting energy. It was immediately involved in this madness and advised me more than once. Finally, she managed to bring down the little fear I had and kept me a little leap. Thank to her.
This led me to the skirt is a comprehensive approach that aims to not accept anything just to be like everyone else. I had too long been enshrined in collective thought and devoid of any discussion of any ... reflected internalization of what is fact and what is worn. Men wear a pant, that’s how. I wanted to ask "why?»And look for the answer by the cons-example. This "why? "Liability has become a" why not? "Active and cons current. I began to reflect on each garment to begin with underwear. The menswear is often dull and banal. It only begins to see the original articles fill the shelves of shops. But it is still relatively good. So I searched the net, searched the forums for discussion, travelled dozens of sites selling online for finally find some original articles and to my taste. Parallel to this search for underwear, I am interested in the rest of my wardrobe. So I asked about the skirt. But no question of falling into the trap of "copied", I really wanted to find the style that I liked. So I took the time and looked at many models before choosing those who are now beside the trousers in my wardrobe.
The first time I wore a skirt, it went very well. I immediately felt good. Wearing something original gives some confidence, self-confidence. The suit probably does not make the man but when he helps himself well to fit into society as assumed personality. Thus, clothing, in my opinion, is strong language, it is a statement that it is an affirmation of what we love. From there, of course, be aware that we will attract attention. We'll even bring all kinds of looks. Some will be intrigued, others jeering, others admire. But in any case, it does not leave indifferent when it is required that a lot of habits. Sometimes my eyes some burden ... especially the eyes that are not paid. In fact, I have no problem with the fact that concerns me. We can even approach me in the street to ask questions or just to give his opinion on what I wear, even if that opinion is not in my opinion. By cons, what bothers me is when the eye is done by stealth, when he fled when he meets the mine or when he is aggressive. So to all those who read these lines, assume what you think. Be honest and consistent with what you feel. Whoever is holding an original knows it will attract attention and cause very different reactions, so do not hide.
Taking its originality is not always easy. Thus, the first time I confronted my new outfits against the other was in places where I was sure not meeting anyone in my entourage. Without doubt it is easier to accept the eccentricity of a person seen for the first time to accept the radical change from someone you know well. Therefore, I fear reactions, fear of being misjudged by people I like. Today I have this fear but more and more people around me are familiar and it is going very well.
plan to buy me and make me do other skirts in the near future. It is difficult for me to wear to work (I am often in consultation with clients and I would not like my outfit is the only thing to be remembered for my actions) but I wear and wear more and more regularly. For taste, primarily, but also because it's gay cause ... to respond to others and to feel different. And then, as my wife looked at me with eyes amazed and captivated when she sees me in a skirt, I never cease to be. I just hope, changing minds, the choice will grow and prices will democratize.
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